But then, who am I to be so high on my horse, right? – Whole Foods – you may have to hit her with a 2×4, but yes, I have met butches in Whole Foods.
– Butch Femme Kink – whatever happened to that website? Unfortunately I was taken at the time so nothing ever came out of it.
Believe me, I have been there: I know how hard femme invisibility is.
But, like I wrote last year, once you switch your energy from meeting butches to doing you (taking up a new hobby, going to the gym, volunteering, doing what makes you happy), they start popping out of nowhere and on your direction like crazy.
Best way to keep up to date is liking its Facebook page. – LGBT classes – salsa, ballroom dancing, cooking, drawing… I had Brenda for 2 full days before I got tired of not finding butches in my age range and zip code LOL – Facebook groups… I joined most of the butch-femme groups, left, and now pledge the 5th.
Do you imagine a kind of relationship that is unattainable and the Femmes you date can’t fit that vision?
Apparently to femme women are more acceptable than a butch and femme together? Because bigots think two women are only around to give men a hard dick.
Sorry to limp your stick but bigots – get used to it!
The other likes jeans, sports and drinking from a pint.
But the most important thing is you like each other and adore your differences.
– Museums – discretely follow her around 2 or 3 rooms to make sure she is alone and then hit her with a 2×4 to make sure she “sees” you.