Dating a man with erectile dysfunction
I always feel like, even if i'm lucky enough to enter a serious relationship, i dont want to constantly feel insecure thinking my partner will always be feeling like she's missing out and not having a proper sexual relationship.The surgery i'll be having is supposed to help me get erections, but its a long waiting list and i'm not set to be having the surgery until early 2016. i'm fine masutrbating, but currently i dont enjoy it with a partner because i feel impotent and useless.My problem in particular is to do with damaged nerves so i can't get erections.I have sexual/erotic sensation on my penis, it's still functional but the process of getting an erection is simply not possible for me.Also 2016 will come around sooner than you know it.Good Luck with the surgery and dating in Uni, maybe post back after your surgery tell us how it went.Good luck with your op That is such a long waiting list.
Penile implants are definitely last resort and usually not offered unless every other treatment has been attempted.Even if meant no biological children (like I said, I don't know much about it) it would be okay for me.It really depends on the guy and the cause of his ED.meeting with surgeon and then surgeon applies for funding while you're put on the waiting list.) The only other way of getting surgery sooner is by going private but i can't afford it. I cant get erections on my own, pretty much impotent and have never had any major long term relationships.
It's ridiculous to rule out dating somebody purely because of this fixable issue - not to patronise but it's not like he can help it and he seems eager to please in other ways I'd bed most men have some sort of errectile problems at some point in their lives but do not go see their doctor about it because they feel de-masculinised (is that a word? I also get that, for women, it can seem like their partner isn't attracted to them or that they're having an affair but these barriers can be overcome by communication as well as actions. I'v had a couple of short term flings and tend to make use of sex toys, other ways of pleasuring my partner. I'v dated a couple of times and really hit it off but have always been unable to move to the next stage due to this problem.it's a crappy situation, i feel pretty lonely most of the time.