Dating at 40 50 and 60
(They are men, after all.) She won’t get a call from either of these guys and forever wonder why since she thinks she gave him what he wants. I will, however, point out that one woman could be put into multiple categories depending on the current state of her emotional world. I would advise that women genuinely be themselves and not worry if they are being considered a princess, a scaredy cat, or a wow me woman.
You know that dating after 40 (or at any stage of life, for that matter! When you appreciate the same is true for the men you date, it will go a long way toward building compassion and, in turn, building relationships. Just don’t pretend to be someone you’re not just to impress a guy that you like. Doing so will surely help you figure out who you really are and the right “type” of guy for you will notice your glow. I understand that some things might be held as sacred “Me Time” activities.
When he passes those tests or shows he has feelings for her, she questions it and might up the ante.
She picks fights, picks the wrong guys, or maneuvers relationships to end because it gives her control.
The Scaredy Cat he Scaredy Cat has been emotionally wounded by men in the past, and she can’t let go of it.
The Princess The Princess is confident, well put together, and very attractive. She still follows “The Rules” and requires that her man do what she wants when she wants. She’s a scorekeeper, and she alone decides when he’s given enough to satisfy her…or when he hasn’t and is history.