Dating chinese women tips
Let’s address the elephant in the room right at the start – a lot of people automatically assume when they see a Western man dating Asian women she is either A) After a green card or visa, or B) Is poor and looking for security/wealth. A lot of the Asian women who come to the West with the boyfriends/husbands do in fact fit this category, but by no means all of them have an agenda.
Many of the younger Asian women you see shacked up with older men living in your home city are indeed poor, seeking security and often have an ulterior motive.
I will make you to take off your shoes in my house. And never, ever try to get on the bed with your shoes on. I like to use chopsticks in new and interesting ways. If you pour tea for yourself before my Yeh Yeh, you will be judged accordingly.
Having been taught to use chopsticks before I learned to speak, I consider them to be the best utensils.
And don't ask me what that sign says because I probably don't know. But I most likely know how to speak a language other than English. How else are we supposed to talk about other people in public? My parents programmed every second of my life before it was cool for parents to do that. In fact, they'll probably continue trying to set me up with their friends' sons. They might not think you're husband material (yet), but they will like you more if you eat. Actually, just be willing to eat everything when you're around me.
I yawned my way through weeknights with a tutor or at a prep program, and I spent my Saturdays at Korean school hating life while learning how to be a better Korean. "You're not married to this so-called boyfriend of yours yet — what's the big deal?
However, you will quickly find when you come here that Asia has a huge middle class and a rich elite that could hire most Westerners that hold these notions as their house boys, gardeners and personal drivers if they wished.
Far too many people approach dating Asian women as if they are shopping in a catalogue and will find some perfect little housewife.