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Though I have legit reasons to remain as is, there is also the mental block of “I’d rather be alone right now” and the “she’s not my type” syndrome.
BUT, in defense of all introverts everywhere, I can say, that if things click with a person, then they just click.
Out of all the reasons and, yes, even excuses for my singleness, the main issue is me.
Introverts have an uncanny ability to live inside their minds and because of this, it is a constant battle between idealism and reality. The ideal girl is only a season of life away, whenever that is.
This intolerance of outside humanity alone makes it that much harder to go out and be around potential love interests, not to mention you’d have to, again, actually want to engage with females. So chances are, you’ve got a TON of acquaintances but very few select friends. In fact, I’m not sure if this would be considered such a downside.
Your close knit circle of friends is actually exactly the way you would want to build a relationship.
I’m not getting any younger and the dating pool hasn’t been my most successful arena.Here are some of the struggles of being an introverted guy in the dating world.So you see this really pretty girl throughout the week and apart from hi and bye, you’ve never really made legitimate conversation with her, which is an understood must in order to, you know, actually get to know her.“Be yourself, because an original is worth more than a copy.” ~Unknown There was a moment during my twenties years when I realized I was an introvert. This is the story of how I re-learned how to connect with people—without the bars and booze. How could I be an introverted homebody make a completely new group of friends? Here’s how I did it: Bars are a place for people like me. If we both enjoyed this activity, it was more likely we were going to have at least one thing in common.
Now, this may sound like a mundane realization to you, but trust me, this was the Big Epiphany of my young life. Once I realized my life needed a change, I did a complete 180. I also realized I wanted to meet a woman and settle down, but I had no idea how to meet anyone without my old crutch of liquid courage and thumping music. If you’re introverted, you know what I’m talking about. Even after axing bars and clubs, I still wanted to stay home and watch Netflix, but I knew I wouldn’t meet the woman of my dreams if I stayed home. There’s power in local community, and you’d be shocked who you’ll meet out in the real world if you’re open to it.I had an End Goal, and the entire point of going out was the meet it.