That can help it start, but it’s certainly not the only way to start a fire.What keeps a fire burning needs to be much more powerful: oxygen, fodder, and attention.She doesn’t think one date is sufficient to get enough of a picture to know how you feel.After two dates, though, if there’s not chemistry, you’ll know.There are a lot of great love stories that begin with people saying they knew instantly. But there are just as many beautiful love stories that don’t start that way. No.” Now they’re celebrating thirty happy years of marriage.I remember when I was in high school, I asked my mom and dad independently if they fell in love at first sight. I have a friend whose rule is to go on a minimum of two days with a man before she makes a decision if she wants to continue.You want to rip off his or her clothes, and undress his or her mind.It’s a magnetic pull between two people where you both feel mentally, emotionally, physically and energetically connected. It’s feeling that buzz in your cellular makeup and feeling your body internally sigh “yassssss” in recognition.
There are many great prizes in front of us, some seem more accessible than others, and actually getting one can be a challenge.
The problem is that theory is entirely based on the emotional part of love.
But marriage and holy love are way more intricate and intimate than just simple emotion.
That’s why divorce is so prevalent and people aren’t as wary of having sex outside of marriage.
My friends outside of the Church call it “the test drive.” They believe if you don’t experience every part of a relationship (including sex) before you commit, then you’re just setting yourself up for failure.
Scripture actually warns us to avoid that really basic attraction in love.